Well. I guess you could say it’s been awhile. But not without good reason! You’ll have to keep reading to find out why though
To say that we’re slightly overwhelmed would be an incredible understatement at this point. It might as well be July as January February – there might be snow on the ground, but that’s pretty much where the differences end. We are grateful for the hustle (especially at this time of year) but I’m not sure who is getting less sleep at this point. Phil would definitely say it’s him, RIGHT PHIL?
So, the good – and yes, there is plenty of it. We are just about at quota for the 2012 construction season. This tends to take the heat off somewhat, which is a relief. The Rallan is currently listed for sale on MLS (#1011565) and is located at 170 Bonnie Drive in Lively. We still have a lot at 82 Bonnie Drive and are hoping to come up with a plan (including a 2-3 car split garage) for it shortly. Phil has tentatively decided to proceed with construction of the Kennedy on our Landreville lot – the view of Timberwolf Golf Course from this home won’t disappoint. This home should be listed on MLS within the next 2-3 weeks. In an ideal world anyhow.
The bad – this is where I’m really struggling. Not just with a few of the situations we’re dealing with, but how to share them on this forum while retaining my diplomacy. Phil and I have had some tough conversations over the last few months, as some of the decisions we’re making have the potential to set precedent for our business in the future. We usually begin by discussing what other builders would do in the same situation, and much like the roofing decision from this past fall, realize that we don’t typically make decisions the way other builders do. This is great for our clients, but sometimes poor for things like our bottom line. We try to respect the fact that our clients choose us because we’re different from other builders, and therefore have to solve problems differently. And here’s my first disclaimer: if a builder ever tells you that they have yet to have a problem, RUN. I am a snob with perfectionist tendencies, a habit of trying to control every little thing both going into and coming out of our business, and yet we still have problems. They’re out there. Sometimes they’re small, and they sort of knock on your door to alert you of their presence with a bit of time to act. More recently, they blow the whole house down leaving only the door standing. Please keep in mind this is only imagery – we’ve never had a house blow down. The other piece I’m finding to be a challenge is how to stay the same in a business that is constantly evolving. It’s often been said that it’s easy to be good, to be kind, to be nice when things are going your way; the true test comes when things are not. There is a big part of me that doesn’t want to do away with the good, the kind, the nice – even in the face of unprofessionalism and pettiness. If this business changes me to that point, I feel that more has been lost than can be recovered. This goes for Phil as well. Long before we were married, I felt he was the fairest person ever. They say you marry your father, and in this respect I have to agree. Over the years, in business particularly, Phil has had many opportunities to take advantage of a situation some would call a “victimless crime.” As in, he would profit, but not necessarily at someone’s expense. Even in these cases, he takes the high road. Every. Single. Time. It’s not easy being married to someone like this, but I appreciate having him as my moral compass. Please don’t tell him that part though. The toughest part of working with someone with these high standards comes when someone else fails to act properly. It really hurts him when something unfair occurs, especially if it could have been prevented or was done in a calculating or malicious manner. In Phil’s world, everyone would be honest, would be fair, and while life wouldn’t necessarily be any greater, everyone would be on even footing. So at this point, he’s struggling too. I’m not sure I want to see a Monkhouse Homes where I don’t feel good buying a housewarming gift or Phil acts unfairly. As much as we’re being pushed in that direction, I hope we can resist – at least a little while longer.
The (not-so) Ugly
Well, that last bit was pretty depressing. Rest assured that we will live to see another day, to build another house. Hopefully yours! Anyhow, you know it’s some kind of day when THIS! improves your mood. It’s an entirely different thing to pull over and covertly snap a photo. This is what I call looking on the bright side. It might also have something to do with potty training, which is a big topic in our home right now. If just one of these toilets had been not just lavender in colour but covered in Dora stickers as well, you might have seen me on the news that night running across Kelly Lake Road carrying one, to the sheer amazement and unadulterated glee of our two-year old. Small things, right?
Okay, so you’ve been pretty patient. The biggest reason (besides constant chaos and sheer laziness) for the delay in posting has been the big news for our family. While Phil was busy building houses, you could say I was busy building our family. This summer, our family will grow by 2 feet! If you haven’t seen (what used to be) my waist lately, WE’RE EXPECTING! I took this to mean my maternity leave was in immediate effect but unfortunately Phil is familiar with labour laws and sent me back to the office. For another few months anyhow. As I’ve said before, there is no light without dark. In this case, there is no dark without light. And boy, are we grateful for the light.













Master bedroom, ensuite bathroom and closet (also the downstairs bathroom)
Bedrooms 2 & 3, main bath, kitchen, dining room, living room, entry and halls
Downstairs rec room and bedroom

